I am a retired financially secure married man (over 40 years) who lives with his wife. Perhaps I should call my living situation as that of having a room mate because we have not been intimate since 1995.  I guess I have a marriage of convenience.  My room mate has some serious mental health issues and if I were to leave her I think she would do something drastic and either hurt herself or if she was successful, kill herself.  Needless to say, I really enjoy browsing the postings on Voyeur Web.Many of the postings show drop-dead-beautiful women but frankly I'm more drawn to the women who are more ordinary.  Given my situation I really wish my dog could talk so a "regular" not drop-dead-beautiful woman who I can talk to would be nice.  As regards sex, I'm definitely interested but also certain I wouldn't be "up to the task".  Before a recent surgery my wife listened to the list of medications I'm on before the operation and Viagra was mentioned and she became very irate. "What do you need that for?" I replied I thought it wise to have the medication, "Just in case." The last time I approached the subject of intimacy with my wife I was told, "We're too old."  I don't consider myself a proud person but response was so sarcastic and harsh I won't mention intimacy again. I'm fortunate to have a dog.  She actually likes having me around.  So, enjoy the physical sexual side of the relationship with your partner.  Someday you could end up like me.