I followed Voyeurweb before being married, and have returned after leaving an emotionally unhealthy relationship. The silver lining is I now have wonderful children and a much clearer idea of what I'm looking for in relationships (whether casual or eventually long-term): both what I need and what I won't tolerate. I've developed an allergy to lack of respect in any direction, so respect is high on my list of needs, along with curiosity and a sense of adventure, while traditional monogamy isn't so important. Valuing respect does not mean that I'm not interested in playing with power dynamics. I think respect is an essential part of doing so with safety and trust. Meeting someone who can be a friend and a playmate is ideal. Until then, I love flirting online.My first sexual experience was an MFM, and I'm also open/interested in that, but as a bull/buck/stag in a hotwife or stag/vixen relationship. Cuckold porn is interesting to watch, and I absolutely don't shame anyone else's kinks, but my personality isn't suited for the cuckold dynamic. That is, please don't ask me to humiliate, dominate or usurp the male of a couple: my heart wouldn't be in it and I would be uncomfortably play-acting at best. Others are much better suited if that's what you're looking for. I'd rather closely cooperate with the male of a couple than compete, so the only thing that comes between us is her. ;-)The past year (2020) has been one of growth for me, discovering kindred high libido folks and nurturing creative pursuits. For now, I'm enjoying meeting people and sharing photos, writing, and drawing in various fora online. I'm looking forward to connecting with other like-minded souls.I deeply appreciate all the sexy ladies who post here on VW/RC/HC. Life is meant to be enjoyed. Let's have some sexy fun!