First of all, I do not like degradation, causing pain nor abusing anyone, not even if that person likes it. Simply cannot function under those circumstances, and pity takes over pleasure.To me, pleasure is to be shared evenly. I like that EVERYBODY enjoys, and my participation will always strive to this. As I have grown older, I have discovered that "straight" and "gay" are just brands used by people that is afraid of what is not wholly understood. Sex is simply sex, devised originally as a lure to instigate reproduction and the species survival; but nowadays we can let that simple purpose aside, and just keep the fun part of it. So fun can be found in the most surprising places, ways and manners. As long as respect is around, everything may go.I am a married male, who has learned to become a great third.I feel that a housewife can have more men than her ole husband, just because of nature of relationships and her physiology. It is a wonderful experience for her and, as long as the ole man is not left aside or denied his fair share of her lust, it can and MUST be exercised at least once in her and his lifetime. The role of the husband here may range -to my concept- from direct listener, watcher, participant or lead; husband HAS to be there, even if his kink is not to be.I feel sad and pleasure vanishes from me, if she will go alone, is delivered at some place by hub and he waits out, or dates by herself, or anything like, EVEN if the couple agree that she will "tell everything upon returning" or some techno variations as Skype / whatsapp / videochat, or telephone call, even the picturing or videoing of the adventure is bitter to me, because it is way too close to cheating, which has been disastrous to survive upon discovery.I have joined this site, in a strive to broaden possibilities to have sexy fun. I LOVE the chat rooms, and meeting people with some similar orientation.Very many husbands like, as myself, to showcase their wives sharing their hottest pictures / videos. I feel real identified in this, as my own wife is still very sexy and alluring, so sharing her images bring back the excitement of when taken, and bring new ideas for future and fantasizing. For this reason, when I chat with some other proud husband, what I will enjoy most besides the sexy pics of his wife, HIS insight of the picture and circumstances; and his fantasizing along too, hehe.I will LOVE to build a fun, sexy tale together, where his, her and my kinks blend into a hot imaginative sex adventure for three.love to participate in MFM fun, in any role as long as I am there during the live fun. Love to be there it with another couple, in any possible role. Or with my wife with a visiting gentleman.If we have had a pleasant chat, I would love to continue it. Just let me know it here, or to my email niftychunk@yahoo.comJorge